The Connection Script
The operating system installed when you learned: "Be good, be helpful, be what they needβor you'll be alone."
Script Origin
You bought belonging by becoming useful. The script secured connection when you were vulnerable.
Now it bleeds your authority and prevents the depth you actually want.
Current Cost
- Chronic resentment from carrying emotional labor that isn't yours
- Inability to say no without guilt, even when saying yes costs you leverage
- Relationships built on performance instead of presence
Immediate Test (Use Tomorrow)
Next time someone asks for something you don't want to give, say "No, I can't do that" with zero explanation or softening.
Do not justify. Do not offer alternatives.
Track the response. Most people will accept it without issue. That gap between your fear and their reaction is the script lying to you.
The script is now exposed.
Delete The Operating System
The 10-week Cybernetic Identity Rebuild starts January 6.
Founders' Group rate: $4,995 (3 seats remaining)
Forensic behavioral archaeology combined with neural reprogramming.
Not therapy. Not willpower.
You delete the operating system causing the over-functioning and install a new one.
Or close this page and keep earning belonging you should already have.
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